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the 90s Never Really Ended

“Calendars measure some decades. Memories measure others.“

There are evenings when the world becomes strangely quiet.

The notifications finally stop.

The endless scrolling loses its charm.

Netflix asks if you’re still watching.

Your phone battery reaches 9%.

And for reasons you cannot explain, your heart quietly whispers…

“Life used to feel different.”

Not easier.

Not richer.

Not perfect.

Just… warmer.

Curiously, this feeling is no longer limited to those who grew up in the 1990s.

Today, millions of young people born after 2000 fill their playlists with old melodies, decorate their rooms with cassette tapes they never owned, wear oversized denim jackets from an era they never witnessed, and dream about a world where people knocked on doors instead of sending “Are you home?” texts.

How can someone miss a time they never lived?

That question stayed with me for years.

And perhaps the answer isn’t hidden in history.

Perhaps it is hidden in the human heart.

“The past is our greatest storyteller.

A Sunday Morning in a Small Town Called Bahraich

In a small town like Bahraich, Sunday mornings had their own unspoken rhythm. By nine, the entire street would fall silent by some unstated agreement. Even the milkman hurried, even the vegetable cart paused — because the Ramayan was about to begin, followed by the Mahabharat. The elders would bathe, light an incense stick, and settle in front of the television, and we children, however reluctantly, would sit quietly beside them.

In that one hour, the entire neighbourhood seemed to breathe as one. The same theme music drifted from the house next door, from the balcony across the lane. If the picture flickered on someone’s set, a child would race up to the roof to adjust the antenna, and a voice from below would call out, “Wait, wait — it’s coming in clear now!” It was such an ordinary sight, and yet, looking back, an entire town was breathing together without ever realising it.

Then came Chitrahaar on Wednesdays, or the Sunday evening film for which homework was always finished in advance. Shaktimaan’s arrival was nothing short of a festival — we would attempt his spinning stance in the courtyard, half-convinced that some of that power lived in us too. The New Year’s Day special on Doordarshan was its own ritual, the whole family gathered as though the year itself began only once the programme did.

Those were the mornings, those were the evenings, that taught us — without ever saying so — how to wait, and why sitting together mattered.

Nandan, Parag and the Wait for the Postman

If television set the rhythm of the week, magazines set the rhythm of the month. The arrival of Nandan and Parag was nothing less than a small festival — new stories, new riddles, and that particular smell of fresh ink as you turned the first page. Diwana and Dharmyug sat on the elders’ table, while Illustrated Weekly and Madhuri were read half in secret, knowing full well some pages were “for the grown-ups.” The Hindustan newspaper slid under the door each morning, and its Sunday supplement was saved carefully for the whole week.

This was never only reading — it was a kind of sharing. Someone would bring a new story to school, and the magazine would pass hand to hand across the whole class, sometimes with torn pages, sometimes still stamped with a library’s name it had been “borrowed” from. Every magazine was a small treasure, and sharing that treasure mattered as much as reading it.

Looking back now, nostalgia is really an attempt to fill the absence of that habit of sharing. Even today, the sight of an old magazine cover makes us pause — because it is never just paper. It brings back an entire afternoon.

“A time gone by never comes back around,
Yet the lamp of memory is never truly extinguished.”

“Sometimes, yesterday feels closer than today.”

Campa Cola, Rasna and the Taste of Summer

If the taste of the 80s-90s could be bottled, it would be that chilled bottle of Campa Cola handed out at village fairs and wedding feasts, or that packet of Rasna which, once mixed, filled the whole room with an orange fragrance. Making a glass of Rooh Afza on a summer afternoon was practically a ritual — the pink hue, the ice cubes clinking, and a mother’s voice calling out, “Don’t drink too much, it’s almost time to eat.” A bottle of Gold Spot arrived only on special occasions, and turning the empty bottle over in your hands afterwards is remembered almost as fondly as the taste itself.

A sweet paan with supari after meals was common in nearly every household. Grandfather would stop at the paan shop and have it made just so, handing us a small piece on the way back. Even today, that faint bittersweet scent of supari brings back the memory of an old home, for no particular reason at all.

The Old Bahraich Station and a Journey That Never Seemed to End

The old Bahraich railway station still lives in memory exactly as it was — crowds on the platform, steel trunks and rolled bedding, and announcements that were half understood, half lost in the noise. The waiting would begin long before the train arrived, sometimes for hours, the whole family seated around the luggage, elders checking their watches again and again.

Boarding the general compartment was a small battle in itself — an uncle would sprint ahead for the window seat, and winning it felt like no small prize. The journey was long, sometimes very long — the train stopping at every small station, the calls of tea and peanut vendors drifting in, and somewhere in that crowded compartment, a stranger becoming a friend as though you had known each other for years. The earthy smell of tea in a clay kulhad, and the broken kulhad still in your hand as the journey ended — all of it feels as fresh today as it did back then.

School and college days were much like that same journey — slow, crowded, yet every moment worth remembering. Cycling to school, staying up all night before an exam, racing to the field the moment the last bell rang with friends in tow — all of it just as precious as any long journey.

“That journey was certainly long, but it carried a warmth of its own — in the crowd, in the waiting. Perhaps that is exactly what today’s faster, more comfortable travel has lost.”

“That moment on the platform still stays within the heart,
Time raced on so quickly, yet memory’s journey never did depart.”

“We don’t remember days, we remember moments.”

The Evening That Took Me Back

A few weeks ago, electricity disappeared for nearly an hour in my neighbourhood.

No Wi-Fi.

No television.

No charging cables.

At first, everyone looked restless.

Children complained.

Adults searched for mobile networks as if they had misplaced oxygen itself.

Then something unexpected happened.

Someone brought chairs outside.

A grandmother began peeling peas.

An uncle started telling stories from his college days.

Children, with no screens left to stare at, began inventing games.

Someone laughed.

Someone hummed an old tune.

The moon slowly climbed above the rooftops.

For sixty ordinary minutes…

It felt like the 1990s.

Not because the calendar had changed.

But because the people had.

And that is when I realised something beautiful.

The 90s were never just a decade.

They were a way of living.

Back When Waiting Was Part of Happiness

Today, everything arrives instantly.

Food.

Movies.

Messages.

Shopping.

Even friendships often begin and end with a swipe.

Yet, strangely enough, happiness seems to take longer to arrive.

The 90s followed different rules.

If your favourite television show aired every Sunday morning, you waited all week.

If your cousin lived in another city, you waited for the letter.

If someone promised to meet you at five, they either arrived…

…or they didn’t.

There were no location pins.

No blue ticks.

No “Typing…”

And somehow…

People trusted time.

Perhaps anticipation was the secret ingredient that made ordinary moments unforgettable.

When everything becomes instant, very little becomes memorable.

The Sound That Lives Forever

Close your eyes for a moment.

Can you hear it?

The click of a cassette entering the player.

The soft whirring before music began.

The scratching sound as someone searched for the perfect song.

Today, music streams endlessly.

Yesterday, music was earned.

Every favourite song carried a small ritual.

Rewind.

Fast-forward.

Guess.

Smile.

Listen.

Repeat.

The song wasn’t merely heard.

It was experienced.

No algorithm can recommend the excitement of accidentally discovering a forgotten melody hidden on Side B.

The Smell of Summer Vacations

Every family has one memory that belongs only to summer.

Mine begins with a railway platform.

Steel trunks.

Orange water bottles.

Paper tickets folded carefully inside Father’s shirt pocket.

Mother carrying homemade pooris wrapped in newspaper.

Grandmother reminding everyone not to forget the pickle jar.

And children…

Children measuring journeys not in kilometres but in mango orchards outside train windows.

There was no GPS.

Only conversations.

There was no playlist.

Only vendors shouting…

“Chai… chai…”

“Samosa le lo…”

“Cold drink…”

Sometimes I wonder.

Were those journeys really longer?

Or were they simply richer because nobody spent them looking down at a screen?

Why Retro Culture Refuses to Fade

Walk into any café today.

Vinyl records decorate the walls.

Neon signs imitate old cinemas.

Film cameras return to fashion.

Typewriters appear in luxury hotels.

Polaroids are sold at premium prices.

Young designers recreate the fashion of the 1990s.

Streaming platforms produce stories set in that decade.

Even brands proudly advertise “retro editions.”

This is not a coincidence.

It is cultural memory.

When societies become overwhelmed by speed, they instinctively search for slowness.

When technology dominates daily life, authenticity becomes luxurious.

Retro culture is not really about old things.

It is about old feelings.

And feelings never become outdated.

Why Nostalgia Sells More Than Products

Think carefully.

People don’t buy vintage radios because they sound better.

They buy them because they sound familiar.

A café doesn’t hang bicycles on its walls because bicycles make coffee taste better.

It does so because memories make coffee taste richer.

Marketing experts understand a truth that poets discovered centuries ago.

People rarely purchase objects.

They purchase emotions.

A simple chocolate advertisement doesn’t promise sweetness.

It promises childhood.

A scooter commercial doesn’t sell an engine.

It sells Sunday mornings with Father.

A travel campaign doesn’t sell destinations.

It sells the possibility of becoming the person you once were.

That is why nostalgia remains one of the most powerful stories ever told.

Because memories never compete on price.

Perhaps We Miss Ourselves

Every generation believes its childhood was special.

Maybe all of them are right.

The truth is not that the 90s were perfect.

The truth is that people were different.

Meals were slower.

Festivals were louder.

Friendships survived disagreements.

Photographs were precious because every click mattered.

Birthdays existed without hashtags.

Love letters survived without emojis.

Silence wasn’t awkward.

It was peaceful.

Maybe we don’t miss cassette tapes.

We miss listening.

Maybe we don’t miss postcards.

We miss waiting.

Maybe we don’t miss old television sets.

We miss watching together.

The objects changed.

The emotions remained.

A Cup of Tea and an Old Neighbour

A few months ago, I met an elderly neighbour sitting outside his house with a small transistor radio.

The radio crackled more than it sang.

Yet he smiled after every song.

I asked him, “Uncle, why don’t you listen on your phone? The sound is much clearer.”

He looked at me for a moment and replied,

“Beta, the music is clearer on the phone. But the memories come only from this radio.”

I had no answer.

Perhaps none was needed.

Why the 90s Never Really Ended

Perhaps that is exactly why the 90s never truly ended — because it was never just a decade. It was an art of waiting, of sitting together, of finding complete joy in the smallest things. Those Ramayan-Mahabharat mornings, the wait for Nandan and Parag, that sweet sip of Campa Cola, and every long moment spent at that Bahraich station — these are not merely memories. They are a part of who we are.

This wave of retro culture is really an attempt to touch that part of ourselves again. Every time an old jingle plays, an old magazine cover appears, or the whistle of a small station is heard, we return, if only for a moment, to that same sense of belonging.

So the next time such a memory rises unbidden — a mother’s hand stirring Rooh Afza, a grandfather’s paan shop, the crowd at an old railway platform — do not dismiss it as merely bygone. It is simply asking you to pause, to stay a while, and to feel that you belong just as much today as you did back then.

Press Play On Your Own Memory

Which memory just played in your mind — a magazine, a station, a summer drink?

Share it in the comments.